We Found Where The Good Men Are

I had a great conversation with my girlfriend about where all the good ones are. We found a few good men this weekend and they gave us insight to where they like to chill.

WL#2 approached our lovely men of the night. Mike, our smooth artsy surgeon brother, said that women never approach him. She asked Mike and his friend, Tionne, if she had not approached them would they have gone up to her. They said no, because they were at the lounge to hang out. They were not looking for anyone or anything. Also they don’t ever go out. They go out like once every three months. That was the biggest tip of all.

The good men are chillin’ at home and working. Mike, Tionne, and their two friends said that they don’t go out. They usually just hang out at home with friends. What do these men do for a living? One is a surgeon, the other owns his own I.T. business, the others I don’t remember but they have substantial jobs doing something fabulous with their lives.

When you go to the club or bars what type of men do we all usually meet? Those who are “about” to start working for their uncle, those who are trying to be a rapper…you get the picture.

But I like to go out, I enjoy having a good time. Therefore, I can imagine there are men out there who are the same way.Does that place them in the category of playa’s then because going out for a male is different than going out for a female. Of course you can not place everyone in a category, but in a sense we all stereotype those we see at clubs and bars. You see some people as going out to just have a good time, some want a quick lay, others are desperate to find a partner, and then some enjoy to drink and listen to music without being bothered. How do we weed it all out? Well we don’t. We sit and hope that your paths cross with Mr. Right. That’s how most people found their one and only; by chance. Now if I can actually accept that fact.