Yeahhhhh Buddy! We had a great night last night. I am very proud of my ladies. Last night I went hunting with Wing lady #1 and #2.
First stop was Taylor's because it started raining as Wing lady #1 (WL#1) and I were heading to Centanni. As soon as we walked in we were eyed by four men. We immediately gave our sweet smiles and sat right next to them. The dude next to me said hello and went back to chatting with his crew. We got our drinks and waited to see what the men would do.
Tell me why they did the 25 Abigail.
The shit was wack. Ol' boy pointed at WL#1 and talked to his boy. That was it. He didn't come over until I did the 50/50 Abigail to get him over and told him that he just needed to talk to her. I started chatting up his boy, Alex, who was...interesting and entertaining. Next thing I know WL#1's man, Dillon, walks over to me and says "she is leaving in 2 weeks I cant talk to her". AKA he was looking for a wife and she was no longer an option. I really didn't know what to think of that. My immediate reaction was loser! Can't you just talk to someone to enjoy your night and just be around people in general?
WL#2 picked us up from Taylor's and we headed to Centanni. A very cute location, but we didn't stay because we were on the prowl for a more diverse/ single crowd. So we headed to Soho 7.
Jackpot!
What a lovely place with beautiful people. Alpha Females and Males all over the place. It was amazing how our mental dynamic changed too because we recognized that everyone had options and could take their pick of their type and taste. There was one particular male who was very interesting.
All of us noticed him off the bat from the crowd with his stylish suit, smooth bald head, and confident stance. Then we saw him up close.
***Record Scratch***
Homeboy was old and was on the prowl more than we were. He was talking to every other female in the place and looked like a Playa Playa! Like those men who have a room with leopard print sheets, red pillows, and whips. MmmmHmmm you know those weird ones I am talking about. No thank you Mam. Moving right along...
Juan met us at Soho 7 and was sweet, fun, and chill as always. He did not bring any friends with him because they were all headed to Hot Water Nightclub. As I chatted him up, my ladies made moves on some new fellas that we had seen walk in. These men looked smooth and were oh so stylish. I have to say I was definitely a lil' jealous that I had to entertain my friend instead of hunt, but it was all good because he was not going to be around all night.
Juan went to Hot Water to meet with his friends and I pranced on over to my ladies. They had done well. I felt like a proud mother. They picked up the two beauties and were obviously really comfortable with the both of them (Tionne and Mike). Soon enough two more of their boys came over (Wayne and Quinten). All of them were mad cool! We all chatted, danced, and shared info back and forth. WL#2 was definitely the winner of the night with three dudes sweating her and passing their numbers to her. WL#1 met the most men of the night. Bold as hell talking to everyone within our vicinity. I got everyone's info and landed a meeting for Thursday with Tionne for some Chicago stepping. Plus Tionne and Mike both said that all of us have to get together before WL#1 and I leave for our next destinations.
It hit 2pm and it was definitely time for us to head on home. I emailed Tionne and Mike this morning to pass my Milwaukee Budget Nightlife sight onto them. Then I received a text from WL#2 saying that Mr. Wayne and her had been texting throughout the morning. A few hours later, I learn that she has a dinner date.
Bingo! One of my ladies has met the goal.
Now you see why this was definitely a successful night!
Sunday, April 19, 2009
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What a night!! I'm not sure what got into me, but I was definitely on it! Good times indeed! Look out for my blog tomorrow...it may talk a "little" bit about my date!
ReplyDeleteHere's what I learned from last night:
1. If you go up to a group of guys (and of course you are looking cute) and rather than give them the option to come and talk to you, actually stay and talk to them, that seemed to work ok. They were engaged in conversation and interested in what I had to say.
2. Going up to men is good for their egos. The one guy told me he never gets approached by women and would never have approached me even if he was interested because he was just out chillin with the guys.
3. Most of the good men do stay home...I was lucky to even meet those guys because by their records, they go out once every 3 months.
4. Make sure you have some sort of cute line - I did and they were definitely flattered.
5. Be confident - I think last night was the right combination of luck, tipsiness, and just having an I dont give a what attitude. Whatever the formula, it worked!
Those are my 2 cents about last night. It also helps to have women with you that are outgoing and willing to chat with strangers!
-Ms. QTO